This is the title of the post that i just looked at at Warrior Forum under the self development section to think of something i can write for my readers.I hope that these methods could be of help to bringing you wonders in your life.
Careful spending
Learning to spend appropriately is important so that you live below your means.Do not overspend and keep a sheet that you can keep track of your expenditure is good.The economy is nothing withoutyou spending but still you must watchyour wallet closely and not living a life too hastily that you keep buying things you don’t really need.Keep it in mind.
Save
Good investments allow early retirement.Wise investments allow financial independence.Read books on investment or pick up some tips from the newspaper on financial learning or information.Although you may not have any background, its important that you learn about finance so that you can plan for the future from young.
Education
Knowledge is power.Its food for the brain.No one can improve their life without this and this is attained through reading and taking action.By doing so, we learn from our mistakes and experience we gain from it. Its not just from books and materials that we use our eyes to roll over and over again.
Long-lasting relationships
Relationships. Its a people world and everything you do almost relates with another person.So its important that you relate well to your kind.I’ve realised that there’s a lot of politics in human as well especially when you know them too well.Thats when the journey get tough and thats when everyone shows their true colours.Handle people well and you’ll stand to gain from it because afterall we are interdependent.
Work towards a goal
As mentioned probaby countless of times in my blog about goals.You can read more about them at the goal setting section.To sum it up short, you need to set a goal but no action means no results. So taking the first step to do something is the harder part than setting the goal itself.Don’t set a dead goal, set a live one.
Expect less, give more
Okay, i quite like this one but its hard to do sometimes. However, i think it will get easier as it goes by.Give more to others and expect to receive less. Go to work earlier, leave later.Express your help more and don’t ask for rewards.But we are the selfish and greedy kind.We are born with the natural urge to want to be better and get all we want.So this may not be easy and being the good guy is hard.Still, try your best to model this behaviour and i think it will foster great relationships and credibility with others.Respect is earned.Look for the big fish.Ha.
Live simple
This might not be for the long term i suppose if you started earning the big money.But for the start learning to live simple and not too luxurious may be sufficient enough.Instant gratification is not the solution.Reserve the best for the last, so start living simple.Leading a simple life sometimes could be the happiest times.I know the simplest lives are probably the people that are the happiest on earth and they are the ones that are not in the city where the stress lies.They just lead the “kampong” in Singapore , its a term of which meaning a kind of country side kind of life or the natural way of living with attap house and the like where neighbours are close to each other.
Free from worry
Worries.This is very worrying because i know that this is a psychological attack to humans and can really drain our energy.Its so hard to get rid of sometimes.Hard to battle it is,quick to kill the physique of us too.Handle it well and i’m sure you will have a life of less worry in future.Learn to carry yourself well when worry invades.Do not let it overcome you and make good balance in life by seeing the big picture.Staying optimistic is the key.
Breathe fully
This is another interesting point i gathered from that forum i mentioned at the top of this post earlier.Breathing has so much impact on your instant moment of living. You FEEL that moment of time , you breathe in and then out.I don’t know but its hard to explain the course of breathing that affects the self.However, the style of breathing and controlling it affects our state.Keep that in mind.
Smile
Short and sweet.Smile everyday,look into the mirror and smile in the morning.Its not a crazy thing to do if you’re wondering.Its something that is easy to do and yet brightens your day when you start with a nice expression and “thumbs up” feeling.
Share
Like i said, we are selfish(can’t help it) , sharing is so beautiful.Learn to share and share to learn.You can start with small things like when eating your snacks,share with your siblings.Small stuff like these.
Express appreciation
Lol.Express, don’t overdo it though but once in a while learn to make a habit to thank people and tell them how much they have helped or benefited you.Its a small gesture but it does brighten someone’s day somehow!Thats they way it works
I hope you’ve enjoyed the post and carry them out in your life.
To your wonderful life!
Glenn Tan
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